Comments on: Get Your (Business) Priorities Straight

By: Dawn Elyse Warden-Reeder

Dawn Elyse Warden-Reeder — Fri, 28 Jun 2013 00:41:04 +0000

Hi Jim. Thanks for starting a worthy discussion here. I have some thoughts that I would like to contribute, however, I would prefer to do that when my mind is a bit fresher. I would like to say, though, that I am a big fan of collaboration and really enjoy being a part of a hardworking, like-minded team. (And, am in fact, on a couple.) My point was more about “qualifying” the opportunities that you say “yes” to, in a very honest, objective way. I think we all wind up doing things that might not meet our career goals nor, our personal goals. Those are not great choices. But, I am not referring to selfish, ego-driven goals. Rather, I am referring to fulfilling goals that you’ve set—for instance, me wanting to write a book—but that you allow yourself to get distracted from so that you feel unfulfilled over time. Again, I would love to continue this discussion and sincerely appreciate your thoughtful comment.

By: Jim Nico

Jim Nico — Thu, 27 Jun 2013 21:24:56 +0000

This started out as a very well written article, and I will grant there are some good points for those who need more self restraint, but sadly it denigrates into an anthem, a credo, even a clarion call for self promoters and the chronically self absorbed. The most important question is not whether ‘getting sidetracked over to someone else s agenda’ conflicts with your goals–but when there is a conflict you want to assess whether there is synergy or guess on whether you can collaborate and help each other to see if there is synergy. The opposite path is selfish, and often times is also the sign of narcissism. In simple terms–see if you can both gain before you dismiss working together. And beware of generalizing and black and white thinking–to see the exceptions.

By: brown

brown — Wed, 26 Jun 2013 13:41:42 +0000

Most people should empower themselves with business and entrepreneurship skills.This will provide a means of employment and improve our economy.

By: Eileen Collins

Eileen Collins — Tue, 25 Jun 2013 21:20:31 +0000

I found this post at just the right time. Saying “NO” hasn’t always come easy for me, even when it wasn’t in my best interest to say yes. Thanks for the perspective and giving me another tool to set my priorities and keep them set.

By: Carrie @ Chockababy

Carrie @ Chockababy — Tue, 25 Jun 2013 19:36:27 +0000

My husband always reminds me that a Yes to one thing is No to another, and often it’s No to my family. I need this reminder often!

By: Heather

Heather — Tue, 25 Jun 2013 15:12:59 +0000

What a great post! This applies to my work in academia too – although not business, we are ever growing our influence through research, presentations, and publications – but many “good opportunities” stand in the way time wise for getting us there in an efficient manner!